You've thought it through. So why is moving forward still so hard?
You can have the insight, the experience, even the evidence, and still find yourself circling the same decision.
You research a little more. Rework the idea. Wait until you feel more certain. Consider what others might think. Tell yourself you are being careful.
What if something deeper is keeping you from moving?
Traction: Turn Your Doubts into Decisions is a guided workbook by Jessica J.J. Lutz that uses the We-Mind vs. Me-Mind framework to help professionals under pressure overcome overthinking, break hesitation loops, and make confident decisions.
Why insight alone doesn’t always stop overthinking
The pattern behind your hesitation
A new way to understand overthinking
Exercises to break decision paralysis
Discover the pattern
Hidden dynamics can turn a straightforward decision into an exhausting internal negotiation.
When connection, autonomy, visibility or achievement feel at stake, two powerful drives in you can pull in different directions.
What looks like indecision may be a protective response that once made perfect sense, but is no longer serving you.
Understand what is happening and make different choices.
Close the gap between knowing and doing
Traction brings together psychological insight, research and practical exercises to uncover the stories and protective patterns shaping your decisions.
It's written for people who are tired of being told to simply stop overthinking, or to act before they are ready. It helps you understand what is getting in the way, work with the patterns behind it (instead of fighting yourself), and move forward with greater clarity and confidence.
What you’ll gain
See the pattern
Recognise what's really happening when you hesitate, overthink or hold yourself back — without reducing it to a personality flaw.
Change the story
Reframe the assumptions shaping your decisions, and open up new perspectives and different responses.
Find your footing
Build the alignment that allows you to act, speak and lead without the internal tug-of-war that has drained your energy for years.
What readers say
"I didn't expect it to be so practical. I liked the structure. The chapter on impostor feelings was super. It's now finally clear to me. This book was very, very beneficial. I've never seen something like this before."
Tetiana Georgescu
Program Manager, Frankfurt, Germany
What struck me most was its exploration of the kind of overthinking that hides behind competence: your mind racing ahead, anticipating risks and mapping scenarios until you are no longer fully present. The book offers a powerful shift in perspective and practical tools to turn that mental speed into more intentional action. I was impressed by the insight and depth of the book."
Fatima-Zohra Mimouni
Board and Executive Advisor, 40 under 40 Belgium Alumna, Brussels, Belgium
“Traction is accessible and practical. As I went through it, I could see how these patterns unfold in people I lead. It also helped me feel more grounded. The book offers a clear and thoughtful way out of the cycle of overthinking, towards purposeful action and greater impact. An important book for aspiring leaders.”
Claudia Grisard Barbour
International CEO, Non-executive Board Director, Entrepreneur, Zurich, Switzerland
"It's really well researched. There is a great need for a book that helps you understand what's going on when you feel stuck. This book not only makes you think, but you can get to work straight away without getting overwhelmed."
Hanneke van Dasler
Psychologist & Giftedness Specialist, Zeewolde, Netherlands
FAQ: Before you decide
Answers to common questions about the book, its approach, and the free chapter download. =>
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The first chapter of Traction, including its core ideas and exercises, and the full table of contents of the book. It gives you a clear sense of the book’s approach and lets you begin exploring your own patterns.
For people who have insight, experience and plenty of reasons to move forward, yet find themselves hesitating, overthinking, over-preparing or pulling back when something matters.
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Yes. Traction will be available as a full workbook on October 25, 2026. The free chapter is a gateway to the longer work. You will receive a notification when it's published. Submit your email address below.
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